It’s Inconvenient

I am conducting a class this week on Professional Image Management and I wanted students to come in their formal suit – that is, come to class wearing what they would wear to job interviews.

I received an email today from one student:

“Dear Mr. Pang,

Would all of us need to wear business suits on Wednesday lesson?
Since some of us need to attend training at the Industrial Centre on that day, wearing business suits may make us inconvenient.”

Sure. Bringing along a set of business suit can be rather inconvenient. I can image the need for a large bag to keep the suit and shirt, another bag to carry a belt, shoes and socks. And perhaps another bag for comb, hair gel, shaver, etc.

But I think the issue here is not the physical inconvenience but what’s underlying.

The issue is with the attitude.

I Don’t Have Time

It seems like there is an acute shortage of time in the world. Far too often I hear these phrases from some people around me – students, employees, colleagues.

“I don’t have enough time.”

“I’m too busy.”

“I have no time for that.”

“If only I had 48 hours…”

“I have too much to do…”

Interestingly enough, I hardly hear of such phrases from high achievers. But do these high achievers have more time on their hands?

The fact remains that all of us have 24 hours a day. It is what we do with the 24 hours each day that determines where we will finally end up.

Sure, go on lamenting about your shortage of time, and you will continue to be short of time.

Whether you have time for a particular task is purely a matter of priority. Give it ultimate importance and you will automatically have time for it.

But I recognize that most people walking on earth daily do not have goals for their lives. And so, without goals and objectives in life, there is no “north star” to guide their direction. Without their “north star,” there doesn’t seem a reasonable way for them to make decisions and prioritize each day.

I mean if you don’t know where you want to go (or where you want to be eventually), what does it matter what you should do each day? It’s meaningless.

 

Something for Nothing

In my personal encounter with job-hunters, one particular behaviour/attitude makes me think of leeches.

This type of job-hunters exhibit the following attributes:

  1. No or little value proposition. This means that they are out in the market looking to be hired but they have not (or perhaps unwilling) shown that they can contribute in a tangible way to the organization.
  2. Obsessed with pay, working hours, and or training. Don’t get me wrong. These are valid concerns. But companies hire people to solve the companies’ problems not the job-hunters’. So, if the priority of the job-hunter is how much the pay will be, what the working hours are like and what kind of training is available, without first considering what the company needs and how s/he can contribute, then s/he is an overtly “selfish” worker. Question is this: Why should companies hire people like this?
  3. Concerned only with own benefit. Undoubtedly, most people work for money. Some work for status. This is perhaps a form of slavery which is unseen. Very few people do work which is their calling and life mission. For these people, there is no difference between work and life. As such, what “work-life balance”?? Anyway, for the average employee who is only out looking for a job because of the money, the concern naturally is about how the world can pay their bills, buy them meals, afford them houses, etc. Again, they are concerned only with what they want and what they need and everyday is an opportunity to pursue more of that.

In simple terms, this type of job-hunters want something for nothing. They are not willing to give but very ready to take.

If hired, such employees take the life out of organizations instead of giving it life. This is the very reason why I am reminded of leeches.

 

Rachel and her Resume

Rachel thinks that she’s not getting interviews at consulting firms because her resume and cover-letter are not good enough.

To some extent, that is true. But from the consulting firm standpoint, Rachel’s cover-letter and resume must not only shine, she must have a solid track record to impress them enough.

The least Rachel must do is to prove her value and worth.